Am I a Ladder or Rope

Dear God,

Do I show Casini, Dorian, Isaac how to get out ... a ladder. Or, am I allowing them to pull on me to get out of their mess ... a rope.

Casini is doing well.

Dorian is trying. Until he understands himself, he'll continue to struggle because this barrier is keep him from being successful. He has what it takes to be successful.

Isaac, is lost. Lost, rejects all assistance. But is willing to beg.