Hey God,
Sorry, I haven't talked with you for a while, but I thank you for always being there.
Boy, this guy is 44 years old .... Does this make me a cougar? I don't know. He say no. Would I date someone 5 years older ... than 5 years younger is still in the same range. Cougar .... at least a 13 years difference.
We met @ Hooters this past Friday, 22nd, after my return from Jackson. Showed up in a warmup suit. Seems a lot taller than in his uniform ... just as sexy! I do know that I enjoyed his conversation. He's funny.
Seems he's dates older; his ex-wife was seven years older.
Has a wonderful relationship with his daughter.
Very protective over the women in his life.
Good first impression. Hope to see him again soon.
Thanks again God,
I love you Lord,
Yo
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
National Marriage Project
Hi God,
Boy, Your timing ... don't put You on schedule or clock but you are always on time!
Dr. Neil Clark Warren, Founder and Chairman of eHarmony.com, Clinical Psychologist and Author wrote an article: "On Second Thought, Don't Get Married"
Excerpt:
And inspiring marriages don't happen by accident. They require highly informed and carefully reasoned choices. Commitment and hard work are factors too. But after decades of working with a few thousand well-intended and hardworking married people, I've become convinced that 75 percent of what culminates in a disappointing marriage -- or a great marriage -- has far less to do with hard work and far more to do with partner selection based on "broad-based compatibility." It became clear to me that signs which were predictive of the huge differences between eventually disappointing and ultimately great marriages were obvious during the premarital phase of relationships.
See you have got to do the work: weeding, go with your gut! Don't make that turn down the stairs when you can see the light right in front of you.
Thank you again God for the dream,
Yo
Boy, Your timing ... don't put You on schedule or clock but you are always on time!
Dr. Neil Clark Warren, Founder and Chairman of eHarmony.com, Clinical Psychologist and Author wrote an article: "On Second Thought, Don't Get Married"
Excerpt:
And inspiring marriages don't happen by accident. They require highly informed and carefully reasoned choices. Commitment and hard work are factors too. But after decades of working with a few thousand well-intended and hardworking married people, I've become convinced that 75 percent of what culminates in a disappointing marriage -- or a great marriage -- has far less to do with hard work and far more to do with partner selection based on "broad-based compatibility." It became clear to me that signs which were predictive of the huge differences between eventually disappointing and ultimately great marriages were obvious during the premarital phase of relationships.
See you have got to do the work: weeding, go with your gut! Don't make that turn down the stairs when you can see the light right in front of you.
Thank you again God for the dream,
Yo
Monday, July 4, 2011
Sometimes It Over Before It Starts
Hi God,
I wish I could have Steve Harvey.com for 3 months! Match.com will end on the 7th of July. No luck. No luck with EHarmony.com. Sent Sensa.com back for a refund! I will keep the Alli.com.
A retired soldier came into the PX and left his number with one of the cashiers. I did have a chance to talk with him while there. The conversation was polite. He seemed very interested.
He was in the store to purchase a computer. His crashed while working on a paper ... in graduate school working on his Masters in Accounting. Okay, sounds good.
My first reaction ... His breath was FOUL! I had to back up. But was thinking he seems fit ... no stomach. Tall. Not sexy but presentable. When I went outside, I saw him light up a cigarette .... now I understand.
Well, I talked to him this evening. Come to learn that he possibly not intending to finish. Wants just to able to say it on his resume that he is currently working on a Master's degree without the intent of finishing.
What does that say ....? He lacks commitment? He lacks integrity?
No ... not sexy ... smart men are very sexy! Driven men are very sexy! Capable men are very sexy!
Not sexy! Not driven! Not capable!
Love you God!
Yo
I wish I could have Steve Harvey.com for 3 months! Match.com will end on the 7th of July. No luck. No luck with EHarmony.com. Sent Sensa.com back for a refund! I will keep the Alli.com.
A retired soldier came into the PX and left his number with one of the cashiers. I did have a chance to talk with him while there. The conversation was polite. He seemed very interested.
He was in the store to purchase a computer. His crashed while working on a paper ... in graduate school working on his Masters in Accounting. Okay, sounds good.
My first reaction ... His breath was FOUL! I had to back up. But was thinking he seems fit ... no stomach. Tall. Not sexy but presentable. When I went outside, I saw him light up a cigarette .... now I understand.
Well, I talked to him this evening. Come to learn that he possibly not intending to finish. Wants just to able to say it on his resume that he is currently working on a Master's degree without the intent of finishing.
What does that say ....? He lacks commitment? He lacks integrity?
No ... not sexy ... smart men are very sexy! Driven men are very sexy! Capable men are very sexy!
Not sexy! Not driven! Not capable!
Love you God!
Yo
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Promiscuity and Perception
Promiscuity. This entry is for my daughter.
I always want her to know the truth and learn from what life lessons have taught me. She read my blog today and commented, respectfully, that she thought is sounded as if I "got around". Thus, the reason for defining promiscuity.
I told her, no ... and she knows that I don't "get around" but that this blog is about making decision-making .... to say "no" even when you want to say "yes". She thought my fantasing of kissin the Major during my first encounter with him at the gas station was "gross". But that's what makes it a fantasy ... you think, imagine, but you don't!
One day, she will have an "at first" encounter and hopefully she will, as much as she may be attracted, say, "NO". Then perhaps she remember my blog entry and understand.
I wished I had said "No" to her father! I could have detoured from those years. I love my children but the relationship that got them here .... was definitely a turn to go down the stairs .... Dark brown, muscular, 240-255lbs., 6'2" ... naturally, without working out! My family jokingly called him, Jethro. Remember the Beverly Hill Billies! Within three months of our meeting, I was pregnant with Isaac. Two years later, with Ree. If I had waited ... met his family, his habits ...
I hope that what I give her is a mom that's interested in her dreams and aspirations. When you graduate at age 16, only pushing yourself so that you can get out of your mother's house, never really feeling like you had a home. Home being where the heart is. Never felt "the heart" of my mom. Don't remember kisses and hugs or "I love you" on the way out of door. I hope Ree knows that there is no one on this earth more important to me that her and her siblings. I would give my life for them. Sometimes, it feels as if I have.
She must didn't read the entry about instituting the Steve Harvey rule from his book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. The believe Steve gives a lot of good dating advice for women.
One rule ... perhaps ... RULE #1: WAIT ON SEX! Steve suggest waiting 3-6 months ... by then you will get to know the stuff that you wouldn't have gotten to know waiting 3-6 days or 3-6 weeks! Meet his family, meet his friends!
An excerpt from the book: Although I linked it above .... I believe its worth the cut & paste!
"As an auto plant worker, Steve says he had to wait 90 days to receive benefits—and says the same probation period should apply to dating. "In 90 days they checked me out. They determined if I was easy to work with, if I got along well with others, if I showed up when I said I was going to show up, if I was worthy."
Women, Steve says, hold the greatest benefit of all—the cookie—so there's no reason to give it away until you know your man deserves it. "Slow down, ladies," Steve says. "Look, you cannot run us off."
So what if you don't want to wait 90 days? Steve says if you change the probation period, you do so at your own risk. "You all keep changing the rules. And men are aware of the fact that you are changing the rules. We're aware of the fact that you act desperate. We're aware of the fact that you think there's a good shortage of good men out there," he says."
Respect and love thyself!
There's no shortage, but you do have to do some weeding! That's all I'm doing ... weeding ... intuition. A dinner here, lunch there ... A cup of coffee at Waffle House. I like to feel and hear his conversation ... his opinions. Intuition.
I hope she waits for the right one. The one that cares about whether or not at the end of the day is she okay, are her needs met, did he make her smile at least once during her day. Don't settle. Never settle for a 3! Get to know him, get to know his family, his friends ... his ways and beliefs will come out. Make an informed decision not just an emotional one.
I love you very much Ree. I hope to learn something about myself over this year's journey of discovery. Support my journey.
You're 16 and entering your junior year. You will probably have your first boyfriend this year ... junior prom ... preparing for your senior year ... ROTC, COLLEGE, maybe the Delayed Entry Program into the Air Force ... you have choices. Just take your time ... take a breath ... think about if first .... it can wait until tomorrow.
You're about the leave the house to begin your own life's journey and I will be left to continue mines.
My wish for you is peace, love and happiness. Take your time ... have fun, enjoy life. Make sure he's a friend first. Nothing serious until after you finish college then perhaps you will be ready for a longterm relationship .... not marriage .... not yet!
I love you Lord for this opportunity to speak to my daughter who is young lady and becoming a young woman. Lead and guide her, Father.
I love you,
Yo
I always want her to know the truth and learn from what life lessons have taught me. She read my blog today and commented, respectfully, that she thought is sounded as if I "got around". Thus, the reason for defining promiscuity.
I told her, no ... and she knows that I don't "get around" but that this blog is about making decision-making .... to say "no" even when you want to say "yes". She thought my fantasing of kissin the Major during my first encounter with him at the gas station was "gross". But that's what makes it a fantasy ... you think, imagine, but you don't!
One day, she will have an "at first" encounter and hopefully she will, as much as she may be attracted, say, "NO". Then perhaps she remember my blog entry and understand.
I wished I had said "No" to her father! I could have detoured from those years. I love my children but the relationship that got them here .... was definitely a turn to go down the stairs .... Dark brown, muscular, 240-255lbs., 6'2" ... naturally, without working out! My family jokingly called him, Jethro. Remember the Beverly Hill Billies! Within three months of our meeting, I was pregnant with Isaac. Two years later, with Ree. If I had waited ... met his family, his habits ...
I hope that what I give her is a mom that's interested in her dreams and aspirations. When you graduate at age 16, only pushing yourself so that you can get out of your mother's house, never really feeling like you had a home. Home being where the heart is. Never felt "the heart" of my mom. Don't remember kisses and hugs or "I love you" on the way out of door. I hope Ree knows that there is no one on this earth more important to me that her and her siblings. I would give my life for them. Sometimes, it feels as if I have.
She must didn't read the entry about instituting the Steve Harvey rule from his book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. The believe Steve gives a lot of good dating advice for women.
One rule ... perhaps ... RULE #1: WAIT ON SEX! Steve suggest waiting 3-6 months ... by then you will get to know the stuff that you wouldn't have gotten to know waiting 3-6 days or 3-6 weeks! Meet his family, meet his friends!
An excerpt from the book: Although I linked it above .... I believe its worth the cut & paste!
"As an auto plant worker, Steve says he had to wait 90 days to receive benefits—and says the same probation period should apply to dating. "In 90 days they checked me out. They determined if I was easy to work with, if I got along well with others, if I showed up when I said I was going to show up, if I was worthy."
Women, Steve says, hold the greatest benefit of all—the cookie—so there's no reason to give it away until you know your man deserves it. "Slow down, ladies," Steve says. "Look, you cannot run us off."
So what if you don't want to wait 90 days? Steve says if you change the probation period, you do so at your own risk. "You all keep changing the rules. And men are aware of the fact that you are changing the rules. We're aware of the fact that you act desperate. We're aware of the fact that you think there's a good shortage of good men out there," he says."
Respect and love thyself!
There's no shortage, but you do have to do some weeding! That's all I'm doing ... weeding ... intuition. A dinner here, lunch there ... A cup of coffee at Waffle House. I like to feel and hear his conversation ... his opinions. Intuition.
I hope she waits for the right one. The one that cares about whether or not at the end of the day is she okay, are her needs met, did he make her smile at least once during her day. Don't settle. Never settle for a 3! Get to know him, get to know his family, his friends ... his ways and beliefs will come out. Make an informed decision not just an emotional one.
I love you very much Ree. I hope to learn something about myself over this year's journey of discovery. Support my journey.
You're 16 and entering your junior year. You will probably have your first boyfriend this year ... junior prom ... preparing for your senior year ... ROTC, COLLEGE, maybe the Delayed Entry Program into the Air Force ... you have choices. Just take your time ... take a breath ... think about if first .... it can wait until tomorrow.
You're about the leave the house to begin your own life's journey and I will be left to continue mines.
My wish for you is peace, love and happiness. Take your time ... have fun, enjoy life. Make sure he's a friend first. Nothing serious until after you finish college then perhaps you will be ready for a longterm relationship .... not marriage .... not yet!
I love you Lord for this opportunity to speak to my daughter who is young lady and becoming a young woman. Lead and guide her, Father.
I love you,
Yo
Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Jonah - Life Interrupted
Hi God,
Today, I started Priscilla Shirer's, Jonah, Navigating a Life Interrupted. Very excited about the next six weeks of bible study with the women.
The first question asked, "How has you life been interrupted lately? OMG!
Jonah was told by God to go to Nineveh, which a brutal, violent, hopeless place; an enemy of Israel.
God often sends us into the hopeless places because it's in the hopeless place that we can see the hope of God.
So can we really view life's interruptions as that if we also believe that those same things are purposeful, opportunities and in God's plan---Then, aren't those interruptions actually divine intervention?!
I have to believe that each one of the above "interruptions" that I listed has to some how be used to search for significance! How many things/people/relationships will be affected on my response.
God, allow me to respond in complete obedience.
Yo
Today, I started Priscilla Shirer's, Jonah, Navigating a Life Interrupted. Very excited about the next six weeks of bible study with the women.
The first question asked, "How has you life been interrupted lately? OMG!
- Car accident
- Knee surgeries
- Loss of employment
- Loss of income
- Son incarcerated
- Son having a baby
- Mississippi property
- Maryland property
- My best friend's mom becoming ill
Jonah was told by God to go to Nineveh, which a brutal, violent, hopeless place; an enemy of Israel.
God often sends us into the hopeless places because it's in the hopeless place that we can see the hope of God.
So can we really view life's interruptions as that if we also believe that those same things are purposeful, opportunities and in God's plan---Then, aren't those interruptions actually divine intervention?!
I have to believe that each one of the above "interruptions" that I listed has to some how be used to search for significance! How many things/people/relationships will be affected on my response.
God, allow me to respond in complete obedience.
Yo
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Another One Bites the Dust!
God, Hey ....
Well, I had to get it off my chest with Ras. Explained to him how I felt he handled or mishandled the damage to my waterline. Basically, I felt that he did not demonstrate the competence or the sensibility to understand that when you damage someone's property the responsible act is to restore the person to wholeness. Ras simply had to repair the damage: either himself or contract the work out. Or, allow me to have the faucet replaced and provide him with the bill for the repairs. Ras did neither.
After I finished, of course I felt better. Told him that I thought he was a really nice guy. Using the analogy he gave me about meeting women who seemed to have it all together, held their hands only to find rought skin ... changed his perception of them. Well, the way he handled the damage waterline, changed my perception of him as a man that was capable of getting things done ... at least getting done what pertains to me. It really comes down to integrity.
I don't think I was angry but I may have sounded harsh. I can say I know that I was very firm in my position. This was definately a one-sided conversation. I wasn't looking for an explanation ... maybe an apology.
Ras on the other hand sounded completely flustered. When I asked him if about riding on the beach the next day, today ... He simply said he would get back to me ... His pressure was up.
Well, when I got the call this morning at 5:50 am ... I was impressed that he had the constitution to put it behind him and go forward with the bike ride on the coast today. Said he could be at my house in 5 minutes. When he arrived, I will pulling my bike out of the garage. Ras apologized and said he wasn't going riding and that he should have said. I asked that what are you doing here at 6am????? Ras came to bring me the $25.00. That must have kept him up all night.
I went on with my bike ride around town.
I'm not going to settle ... It doesn't have to be hard. I'm not going to make a square peg fit into a round hole. Not this time.
Thank you God for the dream,
Yo
Well, I had to get it off my chest with Ras. Explained to him how I felt he handled or mishandled the damage to my waterline. Basically, I felt that he did not demonstrate the competence or the sensibility to understand that when you damage someone's property the responsible act is to restore the person to wholeness. Ras simply had to repair the damage: either himself or contract the work out. Or, allow me to have the faucet replaced and provide him with the bill for the repairs. Ras did neither.
After I finished, of course I felt better. Told him that I thought he was a really nice guy. Using the analogy he gave me about meeting women who seemed to have it all together, held their hands only to find rought skin ... changed his perception of them. Well, the way he handled the damage waterline, changed my perception of him as a man that was capable of getting things done ... at least getting done what pertains to me. It really comes down to integrity.
I don't think I was angry but I may have sounded harsh. I can say I know that I was very firm in my position. This was definately a one-sided conversation. I wasn't looking for an explanation ... maybe an apology.
Ras on the other hand sounded completely flustered. When I asked him if about riding on the beach the next day, today ... He simply said he would get back to me ... His pressure was up.
Well, when I got the call this morning at 5:50 am ... I was impressed that he had the constitution to put it behind him and go forward with the bike ride on the coast today. Said he could be at my house in 5 minutes. When he arrived, I will pulling my bike out of the garage. Ras apologized and said he wasn't going riding and that he should have said. I asked that what are you doing here at 6am????? Ras came to bring me the $25.00. That must have kept him up all night.
I went on with my bike ride around town.
I'm not going to settle ... It doesn't have to be hard. I'm not going to make a square peg fit into a round hole. Not this time.
Thank you God for the dream,
Yo
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Is it Me??!
Hey God,
Well, handed him my Letter of Resignation to Bethlehem Baptist Church today. Never in my life have I ever resigned from membership because I no longer wanted to be associated with the ministry or its leadership.
Last Sunday, an announcement was made that the Search Committee would be meeting with the congregation the following Wednesday. The meeting on Wednesday, full of arguing, people walking out, leadership/Search Committee condescending remarks, Head of the Deacon Board doesn't even know what day it is .... Search Committee announces the vote for Pastor will take place the following Saturday, yesterday. The issue came up about eligible votes, it was actually said both active and non-active members can vote. Who are non-active members .... anyone that shows up. Exactly! Any given Sunday the past year ... probably 20 attendees. Voting yesterday, I heard over 100 showed up .... children ... and whoever! The Galloway family came out like bugs under the woodpile to insure their brother received the post of Pastor .... I'm done! The best think for me to do is actually what I did. Resign. Done. Deuces!
Augh! Ras asked me to Lacombe, LA for a Crab Feast Festival. Shouldn't have went ... I feel nothing for this guy since he took no responsibility for the damage to my water line. May not have talked about this. The events took place last Monday:
Talked about my lawnmower being in the shop. Ras offered to bring over his riding mower. I would ride the mower while he weedeat the yard. Well, he ended up bringing his older cousin over, who later Ras says can hardly see, who rode the mower. I went into the house, cut on the water, no pressure. Ras at the door saying his cousin hit the water line. Ras stated he called the City and they were on their way out. I had to go to work. Ras said he would stay until the City arrived. That impressed me that he knew that was the right thing to do. He had already asked me the night of my birthday what I like in a man. I told him: CAPABILITY: THE ABILITY TO GET THINGS DONE WITH LITTLE TO NO SUPERVISION!. Isn't that what guys do? That's what Chicago does when he visits and he's my best friend, not a boyfriend, not a husband! I left for work believing I left my issue in CAPABLE HANDS. NOT!
Talked to Ras the next day. He made the mistake telling me that after the City told him that someone would be coming. HE LEFT! Left with the water fountain spouting in my front yard. Then when he showed up the next day to go bike riding on the beach, I went over to examine the damage. Ras followed me. When I asked him about an anticipated timeframe for making the repairs. He response was, Why? Wrong answer. Why? How about because this was not the condition you found my home prior to letting his blind cousin cut my grass. Then Ras further comments that he doesn't see the need to reinstall the faucet. WHATEVER! Then he further comments that he's surprised it hadn't happened sooner. NOT THE ENTIRE 5 YEARS I'VE LIVED HERE! So, I asked him is he going to contract someone or am I? Then its, I have a friend in the hospital, don't know when he's getting out, but he does this kind of work. WHATEVER AGAIN!
Mr. Evans came yesterday, with no notice, with the faucet and repaired the break. I gave the receipt to Ras today on our way to the festival. He stated that he was surprised that I was charging him. Did he not agree to repair the break! $25.00 dollars: $10.00 for the part, $15.00 for the labour. Mr. Evans wants the money to go to the Stone County Our Daily Bread Food Pantry. To have Ras make the check out to them. For sure. Then Ras said Well pay me for cutting your grass! I started and wanted to say, Kiss My Ass. But instead, said, I didn't ask you to cut my grass. I didn't need you to cut my grass. I have always cut my grass myself!
Contiued in silence to the festival. Really wanted to get over this thing with the water line. Music and food was good. Had a good time. Small event without the overwhelming crowds that New Orleans is known for. Ras asked me if I saw anything that I liked at one of the vendors. I did, a $35.00 turquoise and amber necklace/earring set by Tee's Treasures by Terry Zechenelly: 985-643-4945 (note for myself). He didn't have $35.00. WHAT! Why ask me if I see anything that I liked! Joe, always kept a couple of hundred in his pocket. Isn't that what men do???LOLOLOL!! They are always prepared to handle things. They know. I didn't ask nor to expected, but when you asked be prepared to carry through.
Asked if I wanted to go past his house for drinks. Not! Then he had nerve to ask for a kiss once I got home. NOT! He has no clue that he failed the exam when he left before the City arrived. He failed again when he felt there was no need to replace the damage that he was responsible for causing. He failed when he didn't think he should cover the costs of the repair. He failed when he commented that he should have charged me for cutting my grass. He failed for not having $35.00.
Deuces!
I tried God but I can't do a "3".
I love you much and with you I will always be good. Thanks again,
Yo
Well, handed him my Letter of Resignation to Bethlehem Baptist Church today. Never in my life have I ever resigned from membership because I no longer wanted to be associated with the ministry or its leadership.
Last Sunday, an announcement was made that the Search Committee would be meeting with the congregation the following Wednesday. The meeting on Wednesday, full of arguing, people walking out, leadership/Search Committee condescending remarks, Head of the Deacon Board doesn't even know what day it is .... Search Committee announces the vote for Pastor will take place the following Saturday, yesterday. The issue came up about eligible votes, it was actually said both active and non-active members can vote. Who are non-active members .... anyone that shows up. Exactly! Any given Sunday the past year ... probably 20 attendees. Voting yesterday, I heard over 100 showed up .... children ... and whoever! The Galloway family came out like bugs under the woodpile to insure their brother received the post of Pastor .... I'm done! The best think for me to do is actually what I did. Resign. Done. Deuces!
Augh! Ras asked me to Lacombe, LA for a Crab Feast Festival. Shouldn't have went ... I feel nothing for this guy since he took no responsibility for the damage to my water line. May not have talked about this. The events took place last Monday:
Talked about my lawnmower being in the shop. Ras offered to bring over his riding mower. I would ride the mower while he weedeat the yard. Well, he ended up bringing his older cousin over, who later Ras says can hardly see, who rode the mower. I went into the house, cut on the water, no pressure. Ras at the door saying his cousin hit the water line. Ras stated he called the City and they were on their way out. I had to go to work. Ras said he would stay until the City arrived. That impressed me that he knew that was the right thing to do. He had already asked me the night of my birthday what I like in a man. I told him: CAPABILITY: THE ABILITY TO GET THINGS DONE WITH LITTLE TO NO SUPERVISION!. Isn't that what guys do? That's what Chicago does when he visits and he's my best friend, not a boyfriend, not a husband! I left for work believing I left my issue in CAPABLE HANDS. NOT!
Talked to Ras the next day. He made the mistake telling me that after the City told him that someone would be coming. HE LEFT! Left with the water fountain spouting in my front yard. Then when he showed up the next day to go bike riding on the beach, I went over to examine the damage. Ras followed me. When I asked him about an anticipated timeframe for making the repairs. He response was, Why? Wrong answer. Why? How about because this was not the condition you found my home prior to letting his blind cousin cut my grass. Then Ras further comments that he doesn't see the need to reinstall the faucet. WHATEVER! Then he further comments that he's surprised it hadn't happened sooner. NOT THE ENTIRE 5 YEARS I'VE LIVED HERE! So, I asked him is he going to contract someone or am I? Then its, I have a friend in the hospital, don't know when he's getting out, but he does this kind of work. WHATEVER AGAIN!
Mr. Evans came yesterday, with no notice, with the faucet and repaired the break. I gave the receipt to Ras today on our way to the festival. He stated that he was surprised that I was charging him. Did he not agree to repair the break! $25.00 dollars: $10.00 for the part, $15.00 for the labour. Mr. Evans wants the money to go to the Stone County Our Daily Bread Food Pantry. To have Ras make the check out to them. For sure. Then Ras said Well pay me for cutting your grass! I started and wanted to say, Kiss My Ass. But instead, said, I didn't ask you to cut my grass. I didn't need you to cut my grass. I have always cut my grass myself!
Contiued in silence to the festival. Really wanted to get over this thing with the water line. Music and food was good. Had a good time. Small event without the overwhelming crowds that New Orleans is known for. Ras asked me if I saw anything that I liked at one of the vendors. I did, a $35.00 turquoise and amber necklace/earring set by Tee's Treasures by Terry Zechenelly: 985-643-4945 (note for myself). He didn't have $35.00. WHAT! Why ask me if I see anything that I liked! Joe, always kept a couple of hundred in his pocket. Isn't that what men do???LOLOLOL!! They are always prepared to handle things. They know. I didn't ask nor to expected, but when you asked be prepared to carry through.
Asked if I wanted to go past his house for drinks. Not! Then he had nerve to ask for a kiss once I got home. NOT! He has no clue that he failed the exam when he left before the City arrived. He failed again when he felt there was no need to replace the damage that he was responsible for causing. He failed when he didn't think he should cover the costs of the repair. He failed when he commented that he should have charged me for cutting my grass. He failed for not having $35.00.
Deuces!
I tried God but I can't do a "3".
I love you much and with you I will always be good. Thanks again,
Yo
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