Irreconcilable Differences --- No! The Ultimate Ultimatum

Good morning God,

Thank you for peace.

I had such a headache yesterday, after receiving Sean's paperwork for an amicable divorce, which includes taking my car!

He wants a divorce because I don't want sign refinance paperwork on a house that he purchased and moved in behind my back. You can sign the refinance papers or divorce papers? 

How does a cheater, an adulterer, request a no fault divorce?  

I thank you Lord for putting the people and knowledge needed around me.

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My response will be mailed today to his attorney.

Thank you again Lord, as always ... I place my life, my husband, my marriage in Your Holy Hands. Do as You wish Lord God.

Love you always,

Yo

Marriage Challenges

Good evening God,

Reading an article about Michelle and Barack Obama. Married for 30 years. 

Michelle, "People aren't perfect. Marriages are hard."

“You’ve got to know that there are going to be times ―
long periods of time ― when you can’t stand each other,”
she said, joking that, “There were times that I wanted to push
Barack out of the window. And I say that, because it’s like,
you’ve got to know the feelings will be intense. But that
doesn’t mean you quit.”

Michelle Obama added that “these periods can last a long
time,” even years, in a relationship. But that’s no reason to
throw the towel in. 

My husband should read this ..... but, then again ... this is his third.

In God I trust, Yo

Mom

These days are much more difficult than I ever expected.

I don't know how to help her with comfort. How to help her with the pain. I have monitors to check in on her visually. She can hardly sleep.

This disease, breast cancer, diagnosed in 2014. Double mastectomy and reconstruction. First her and soon after, me. She a survivor; me a previvor.

The Emory doctors have extended her life about 2 years since we've come to Atlanta. I never saw this day coming. I guess I thought she would never look frail or become child like. She also been so independent with such a "its my life and I'm going to choose how to live it" attitude.

The doctor is now using "hospice" in her conversations with us about options.

Parts of me feel that I should take her home where there would be help. Other parts of me, feels like I should keep her around familiarity and Emory.

I just don't know.

Lord, I'm here. Continue to guide and direct me as You always have.

Yolanda

Ermea Russell - NO. 2016-BR-01807-SCT

ERMEA RUSSELL - Click for the full story!


SUSPENDED - Click

Decided: July 25, 2015

EN BANC. ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ERMEA J. RUSSELL (PRO SE) ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE: ADAM BRADLY KILGORE

¶1. Appellant Ermea J. Russell files a Petition for Reinstatement to the practice of law following a ten-month suspension. Because Russell's petition fails to meet the jurisdictional requirements for reinstatement, we deny her request.

FACTS & PROCEDURAL HISTORY

¶2. On July 10, 2015, Russell was suspended for ten months resulting from a Formal Complaint filed at the request of former clients. Based on nine separate informal complaints, the Mississippi Bar found that Russell had failed to provide representation for which she was hired, return client property, and properly withdraw from representation of her clients. These informal complaints indicated her lack of diligence and lack of communication regarding her clients' legal representation. Through its investigations, the Complaint Tribunal found seven violations of Rules 1.16(d), 1.2, 1.3, 1.4, and 8.1 of the Mississippi Rules of Professional Conduct, which resulted in her suspension.

CONCLUSION

¶18. We find that Ermea J. Russell has not successfully shown the Court that she has met the jurisdictional requirements outlined in Rule 12 of the Mississippi Rules of Discipline. As she has failed to meet these requirements, we are not convinced that Russell exhibits both the moral and professional rehabilitation necessary to be reinstated to the practice of law. As a result, we deny Russell's petition for reinstatement and bar the petitioner from filing another request for reinstatement until one year after the date of this decision, pursuant to Rule 12.6 of the Mississippi Rules of Discipline.

¶19. PETITION FOR REINSTATEMENT DENIED.

BEAM, JUSTICE, FOR THE COURT:

WALLER, C.J., DICKINSON AND RANDOLPH, P.JJ., KITCHENS, KING, COLEMAN AND CHAMBERLIN, JJ., CONCUR. MAXWELL, J., NOT PARTICIPATING.

Signing as a Spouse

----Original Message-----
From: Mixter, Amanda
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Subject: RE: xxxxxxxxxxxxxx refinance 68164114

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From: i  
Sent: Monday, August 10, 2020 1:28 PM
To: Mixter, Amanda
Subject: RE: xxxxxxxxxxxxxx refinance 68164114

No Ma'am,

As I explained to him.  Transparency,  xxxxx purchased the home behind my back, reporting to the VA as being single,  at the direction of his ex-wife (an attorney), again he refinanced and took the equity without my knowledge.  He was able to do all that without me.

When I got this employment opportunity,  xxxxx demanded I remove all personal belongings,  even my second car threatening to tow.

He took away my home.

Yo xxxxxxxxx

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Hello,

I am working with xxxxxxxx On his refinance.  Since you are still legally married our underwriting requirements show you must sign the spousal documents at closing.  He asked that I reach out to you to see if you agree to sign at closing.  We are not adding you to title or as a borrower on the loan you would just be signing as a spouse. 

Thanks! 

	Amanda Mixter- President's Club Title Clearance Analyst
	1187 Thorn Run Rd., Suite 600 | Coraopolis, PA 15108 (888) 848-5355 ext. 71312 toll free (313) 877-1312 direct | (855) 455-1835 direct fax

Hurricane Laura

Hi God,

Thank you for life, my mom's, my children, my friends, mines .... Thank you

So, its been almost three weeks since I talked to my husband. Last time, I'm still protesting being asked to sign refinancing the house. Him, sign the paperwork for the house or sign divorce papers. I said I needed to go to answer another call coming in.

Today, I called him to check on Hurricane Laura and if whether he's being impacted. I commented despite being angry with me ... He said he wasn't .... I stated we hadn't talked since the last discussion regarding the house. I guess angry would be better than the indifference I heard in his vice, at least he felt something. But, he doesn't .. he could care less...more of the same. 

I didn't do what he wanted ... Sign my name, my credit, my income over to him ... a quick claim deed .... I don't know what he is up to, but it doesn't sound like he has "us" in mind. It is about Sean. I guess all that regret he expressed. How he didn't go to our God, for guidance, he just reacted selfishly ... has dissipated. 

I prayed for the Lord God to fix my husband, my marriage or give me a window, a door, an escape to get out. He did. If Sean wanted to fix this marriage, then, he would have made an effort. He tore it down and he should be the rebuilder .... Amen 

I was calling and wanted to make sure he was okay. He said it was sunny, no rain. I said I was just checking in and wished I had called earlier if he wanted to evacuate to Atlanta. Didn't want him to be there alone if there was damage.

He said, "Alone?" I made no comment. His question implied ... Why should you assume that I am alone. And he's right. He's started back at the gym. That where he started most of his affairs. So, old Sean returns.

Few more comments from me and then said I said good-bye.

Scars aren't reminders of what's broken; rather, they are reminders of what's newly created.

Thank you God,
Yo

August - CRAZY!!! BULLSHIT

3am

God,

What would I do without you ... where would I be if I didn't know you? Thank you! Thank you!

Not even sure where to begin

My Husband ..... What Could He Be Thinking?????

Asking me to sign to refinance the home in Mississippi! I'm not sure if I wrote about it ... I had to ...

The day I went to work, after waking up with him in the same bed .... came home from work only to find him gone. Moved out! He purchased a home without me, claiming to be single. Later, according to him, his ex-wife, an attorney, advised him to refinance the house to remove the equity so there would be nothing to divide in the divorce. Still, my signature was not requested. Why would I sign on an upside-down $250k mortgage to a property that I never felt a part of ... where I cooked, cleaned, laid my head, shared a bed ......... Haven't talked to him in over 1 1/2 weeks. I'M NOT SIGNING ANYTHING. He did so much behind my back ... I not doing it. Mind you, just the day before, he was talking crazy about an uncontested divorce taking less than 30 days. Why would I consider such ... all of his cheating ... uncontested ... I had to send him a screenshot to remind him of the same. Crazy

My Mom ..... What Could They Be Thinking????

My Mom's cancer has spread to her liver. Feeling like she's at Death's door, she wanted to go home to see and be with her sisters. Tell me why did that almost turn into a hijack!

Prior to leaving, advising my Mom that she had over $1K in her account, reminding that your money will drop while at home, if I see any unusual withdrawals ... I'm going to transfer $2k into my account.

And that is what happened. I transferred $2k to my account. Gave Ree $500 per her instructions. $1500 remaining. I texted her to let her know. Then came the fury ... PUT MY MONEY BACK! I'M NOT A CHILD! and more of the same tone ... Now, mind you ... I've been on my Mom's account forever ... Regrettably, I was baited ... hook, line, and sinker. I was angered knowing that it wasn't my Mom texting, but that she would allow someone to impersonate her, using her phone, with such venom. I told her to stay there and whoever is texting ... stay with them ... I'm cancelling your return home flight. I did this two more time ... things get smooth over .... then, the texts again, demanding return of the money. I told her she could have when she returned home or if deciding to stay ... I'll use to relocate her belonging back home.

I am truly disappointed in myself that I would allow myself to place my Mom in harm's way that could have ultimately removed her from our home and my care.

Happy Endings ....

My Sister flew here bringing our Mom. She's back in her room. Safe. She went to her cancer treatment at Emory. My Sister and I are healing. My Mom, Sister, and I are healing as a trio, as a trinity. We are stronger together.

We thwarted that attempted overthrow! And Mom still have her $1500.

Thank you God for grace and covering.

I love you always :)

Yo