Well God,
Chicago (with two r's) called today and said his mom had a stroke last night while he was visiting. He's feeling that he in some way contributed to her illness.
Not that this is about me, but of course God, I have my thoughts as it relates to the dream ....
Chicago told me last week that he may be delayed arriving for birthday week due to work. My thoughts, he should have placed a leave slip at least two months ago. Work is no excuse.
Chicago left a message last night that as he anticipated, he would wrapping up his assignment today and arriving tomorrow, Wednesday.
Well, that's not happening now. Work will not take precedence over today's events involving his mom.
So, again, it's about priorities, planned and unplanned.
Do I think of my birthday as significant as his mom's illness. NO WAY! But it does demonstrate that he did not make plans nor did he make any adjustment to his lack of planning. Priorities.
I have to remember that Chicago is not a husband or boyfriend, but my best friend.
I didn't call Daryl (with one r from Match.com) for lunch. I'm going to ask him to the movies tomorrow nite to see X-men.
God, We will see,
Yolanda
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